The "C" WordI recall hearing several years ago that everyone is affected at some point by cancer. At the time I could gratefully and honestly say that it hadn't affected my life yet. But I wasn't naive enough to think that it never would affect my life, it was just a matter of when. Two of my dad's cousins had died of cancer, but I didn't really know them, so it was a distant reality.
Since then, cancer has slowly become a "closer reality." My old roommate Alex died of lung cancer before she even reached the age of 30. One of the Elders from my mission,
Rob Epperson, died of cancer in March, leaving behind a wife and 5 young children. My friend
Patricia lost her mom to cancer in April. My aunt
Katie who is only 3 years older than me was diagnosed with breast cancer in the spring of 2007 after giving birth to her sixth child. Thankfully she has just finished treatment. My dad had a tumor removed from his colon this past March. Darrell's mom is a breast cancer survivor and Darrell has had skin cancer removed a few times.
The closest reality yet is that Darrell's dad, Wayne, was recently diagnosed with liver cancer. During the surgery to see if they could remove any amount of cancer, it was discovered that the cancer had spread to the lymph nodes--not a great diagnosis. But we remain hopeful and optimistic. We're so excited to be able to be with Darrell's family again in 2 months for Thanksgiving. Every moment together is just that much more precious now.
The "MS" wordMy sweet aunt Carol has been dealing with Multiple Sclerosis for several years now. She has been such a great example of enduring cheerfully and with faith.
The "T" wordMy fabulous cousin
Janell is currently facing the reality of a brain tumor and will go in to have it removed on Monday. We pray that everything will go well.
My awesome sister
Kimberly has also been diagnosed with a brain tumor, but it seems to be "OK" at the moment--if a brain tumor ever can be OK.
My dear friend Rose had a brain tumor that was removed several years ago in Barcelona, Spain. It was because of that tumor that a girl from the US and a girl from the Philippines were able to meet up in Spain and share such a special bond.
The "A" and "D" wordsSome of my very dearest loved ones are going through anxiety and/or depression right now. These are such frustrating words because it's so hard to pinpoint how to treat these things.
Other words that I know people are dealing with are: shingles (not the roofing kind), infertility, unemployment, being single, the housing market, death, disappointment, separation from loved ones, etc.
So, with so many "words" out there that give us trouble, I think it is only fitting that the way to make it through these words is to look to
"The Word." (John, Chapter 1) We just can't do this on our own.
I love the scripture in the Bible where Jesus Christ is speaking to us and says,
Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.
Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls.
For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light. (Matthew 11: 28-30)
It is hard work to deal with any challenge that is before us. It wears us out and weighs us down. What I love about this scripture is that the Lord knows how heavy and hard life is, so he asks us to yoke ourselves to Him. This didn't make much sense to me until someone explained about yokes and oxen. Each yoke used to be made and fitted exactly to the oxen that were going to share it, otherwise the oxen wouldn't have been able to pull the load together. If we are yoked to the Lord, it will always be a perfect fit. He knows exactly how much of the load we are capable of pulling and then He does all of the rest of the work. And in His words, the yoke is easy and the burden is light.
Another scripture that I love is
And he (Jesus) shall go forth, suffering pains and afflictions and temptations of every kind; and this that the word might be fulfilled which saith he will take upon him the pains and the sicknesses of his people.
And he will take upon him death, that he may loose the bands of death which bind his people; and he will take upon him their infirmities, that his bowels may be filled with mercy, according to the flesh, that he may know according to the flesh how to succor his people according to their infirmities. (Alma 7:11-12)
Jesus suffered EVERYTHING--all the pains, afflictions, temptations, sicknesses, and infirmities that there ever was or ever will be. And He did it so that He would know how to succor us. The word succor means "run to." Isn't it wonderful that He will RUN to us? He also overcame death so that when the "d" word is a reality for us or a loved one, we know we will see them again.
We just never know what "word" will be our reality from day to day, but I'm so thankful that THE WORD is as close as a prayer. We will make it through with Him.